28 December 2025
Closing In.
25 December 2025
A contented day.
21 December 2025
Eight nights of light.
It was a stunning beginning to the holiday as we learned of the terrorist attack in Bondi Beach. And the terrorism continues throughout the world, with synagogues and other Jewish buildings receiving bomb threats, as so many of them have in the last two-plus years since the attacks of October 7, 2023. Of course these attacks didn't start then, but they have tripled and multiplied even more than that. It's as if the attacks let people feel empowered to bring their anti-Jewish views and intentions into the streets, the gathering places, the eyes of the world.
And there is the other side, which are people coming together in support, to do good deeds to overcome the evil that is happening, to show that just as the candles each evening overcome the darkness of the night, so too can the goodness in the world overcome the darkness that threatens to wash over us.
If Lin-Manuel Miranda Wrote a Hanukah Musical - Jared B. Goldsmith
A 'Wicked' Hannukah - Six13 (and the Maccabeats' one seems even more applicable this year)
I'm Spending Chanukah in Santa Monica - Tom Lehrer (because it's Tuesday) performed by Honest 2 Betsy and Ravi Round the World
Puppy for Hannukah - Daveed Diggs
Happy Hanukkah - Matisyahu (it's a live session so the audio isn't great)
Dancing with the Stars' special dance, the first time they have celebrated Hanukah, plus Celebrating Channukah on the International Space Station
Burn - the Maccabeats, one of my favourite Chanukah videos
On the eighth day, two with 'eight' in the name, Ocho Kandelikas (in Ladino) and Eight Nights, One Heart
Again this year I bought the ChemKnits Creations Channukah box for myself:
Some days came with stitch markers or a little light. On the bottom photo, it is Day 1 on the far right and across to Day 8 on the far left, plus the bonus skein at the top. This way each of the miniskeins is 10gm and the extra is 20gm to give a total of 100gms in fingering or DK weight. My favourites this year are Day 7 (sadly, sold out) followed by Day 5 and the bonus skein. Now to figure out what to make.
18 December 2025
Almost three feet a day.
After finishing the scarf I took with me on the trip last week, I pulled out a skein from a stash I have there (purchases when the local Joann stores closed) and started a scarf. This is what I knit in about a day - it's slightly past because I continued on Monday before I left, but I marked where I stopped on Sunday night and this is what I knit in a day:
Of course, I was doing a lot of sitting and knitting as we went to a play and then out to supper, and I wasn't driving, plus it is the very basic garter stitch on only 24 stitches on US#8 needles.
After returning home I finished the hat I'd left behind, which is the 100th hat for the community center afterschool collection.
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| Hat #100 is on the right; on the left is the next hat, which starts the collection for next year. There is a lot of the colourway of Hat 100, apparently they are show leftovers. |
I'll get them washed and tagged and ship the box right after Christmas, because there is no reason for them to go into the holiday craziness.
14 December 2025
Now they can be shown.
Almost every year since it began (when I was living in Dallas and attending the shows was easier) I've gone to see "The Beulaville Baptist Book Club Presents the Bur-Less-Q Nutcracker". It's fun and silly and the male lead does everything from en pointe ballet to tap to handing out pickles to the audience.
A few years ago a friend I took decided that she'd enjoyed herself so much that she wanted to give thank-you gifts to the cast and crew, so she made everybody a facecloth. (She actually made several more than were needed, so people could choose.) I decided to make some fun soaps to give them also.
We've continued the tradition (one year I found some solid lotion bar kits and made those, but haven't had enough of the compound since) every year, and when I wasn't sure I'd get back for the production I left the soaps with my friend on an earlier trip. It's fun and the cast and crew seem to love them.
This year, I finally decided to make a very fiddly design with a mould I was tempted to buy a few years ago. They came out well, but I promised to keep the photo secret until after they were distributed:
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| In addition to the gingerbread people - of course scented with "Gingerbread Cookie" - I made snowflakes of "Fresh Snow" and little gold-speckled crowns (three designs) in "Woodland Elves". |
I also found a kit to make a knitted pickle for the male lead (who also writes and choreographs the show - and yes, everything gets freshened each year, just like traditional Christmas shows often are), and will post a picture of it when I return home as I will finish it whilst traveling.
Update on the knitting shown in my last post: I finished the scarf yesterday and am leaving it here, as I usually donate scarves to Warm Up, America! at DFW Fiber Fest. The hat is at home; it was close to being finished when I left and I didn't want to do the last bits while traveling. I'll finish once I return home and then wash and pack the hats and ship the box.
09 December 2025
Five in (about) one.
- First to the library, to return a book and drop off a couple jackets for the Welcome Baby collection. As I did and turned to leave, I heard a happy "thank you, dear!" and over my shoulder responded "Absolutely!" The guard and I then wished each other a happy day.
- I thought that if there was a close post office I could shave a bit off the route, and the car's navigator claimed there was, but after following the directions I didn't see one. It could be that the gas station or another shop on the strip mall next to it had a postal kiosk or a courtesy station, but I wasn't going to spend time looking.
- Instead, I headed to the Durham Rescue Mission to deliver a duffel bag of mostly clothing, plus a lot of unused wallets that could be likely holiday gifts. I wanted to be sure they would arrive as early in the month as possible, and we'd just located them during a drawer-cleaning.
- Then to the post office, and the automated machine was available and working! Package was quickly postage'd and in the big rotating slot.
- Off to Kohl's to pick up another couple jackets, the result of rolling Kohls Cash credits. While waiting for the item I realized I'd forgotten to grab my knitting, so I checked work email and dealt with a few things. Which is how I noticed that a meeting was just beginning, less than an hour after I'd left. Ooops! A new addition to my calendar. I joined, apologized, accepted the bag of jackets, and headed to the loggia where a bench waited in a sheltered spot. Luckily the call was quick and I could continue on my route.
- Stop at the pharmacy for a prescription and an OTC ear-unblocking spray recommended by my PCP that I use before flying this week. I have until tomorrow afternoon to figure out how it works.
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| I knitted the first ten inches of the scarf in a knitting group online gathering on Sunday. Garter stitch moves quickly. |
01 December 2025
Thirty in 30
It was a bit of a squeaker, and more than once I didn't expect to make it, but before I went to bed last night* I finished the 30th hat made in November. Here's the list:
Some days I managed to complete two, especially the crocheted ones of worsted weight (#4) yarn using a USI-5.5mm hook. I tried a number of patterns as noted in the details. Here is a photo of 28 of the thirty hats:Why are two missing? I donated them to a Blue Elves collection, and too late thought I should have donated a couple that I made earlier so that I could photograph all thirty together. The ones I donated are a flower one like the one in top left of the photo, and a striped one similar to the one in the bottom left.
Some of the hats look very narrow because they are knitted in ribbing all the way, so they are very stretchy. Top right are the two "Giftable Beanie" hats, and the flower one next to them is Red Heart Flower Power yarn, following the accompanying pattern through Row 4 and then instead of changing it to a square, just working as a hat around and around. On the bottom are two Triangle Granny hats, using yarn that I think is scraps of the rainbow yarn shown in six of the knitted beanies, but choosing which colours to put into each hat.
Next to each other, at the top, are the two hats using new-to-me techniques. The blue-striped one in top left is another top-down knitted beanie, practicing how to start without a hole.
I counted the total number of hats and I am much closer to one hundred than I thought!
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* It might have been slightly after midnight, but not much. I misjudged the yarn and had to frog to get enough to finish the top.
30 November 2025
Thankfuls 21-30
Day 21 - Thankful to be
able to enjoy an organ and clarinet concert via Congregation Beth Israel as a bit of a break in a long and hectic day.
Day 22 - Thankful that my mother felt like sitting up at table for supper, first time in a week!
Day 23 - Same as always,
thankful for this guy! (He's bigger now and has less hair.
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Day 24 - Thankful for kind and helpful and thoughtful neighbors.
Day 25 - Thankful to finally finish a major deal at work, so now I can get back to normal(-ish) work, at least for the rest of this week.
Day 26 - Thankful for people who are kind and friendly during everybody's frantic pre-holiday last-minute shopping. Also for a station playing classical music, not Christmas stuff.
Day 27 - Thankful for family, and that we are able to gather together and enjoy each other's company. Thankful for the food on the table, and that we can share it with others. And thankful that Mom made sure to get my great-grandmother's special pumpkin pie recipe! [I forgot to take a photo before we ate it, but it was YUMMY.]
Day 28 - Thankful that we do not need to try to get anything from a Black Friday sale, and that I can stay in the office and home, watching football and eating leftovers for dessert. Also that I was finally able to catch up on some very tedious administrivia because of the quiet at work.
Day 29 - Thankful that my parents are still as compos as they are, with spirits and brains willing even as their bodies decide that a nap is the better way to spend an afternoon. Well, semi-napped and directed my willing hands and feet to help clean out closets and reorganize the master bathroom - thankful I can help them!
Day 30 - Thankful to reach the end of another month, and another year, and have things to look back upon and forward to and more adventure ahead that I haven't anticipated yet. As Stan Lee always ended his messages: EXCELSIOR! 🚀
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By the way, I heard this short video about how gratitude and thankfulness can change your attitude and even how you think overall. I'm not sure it has this year, but I do try to focus on one good thing a day, whether it's the glow of autumn leaves against a deep blue sky, or family, or other things. It might be worth continuing beyond the Thirty Days of Thankful in November. Am I up for continuing in December and meeting the speaker's challenge?
24 November 2025
Continuing the theme.
Hats, and I am getting rather tired of them. I made or finished nine this week, partly because I finished two class ones, and partly because I crocheted a few, which goes faster with worsted weight (#4) yarn and a large (USI-5.50mm or USJ-6.00mm) hook.
The two class projects are a snowflake-patterned hat from the two-handed colourwork class I took at DFW Fiber Fest in September:
And the top-down knitted beanie hat from the Triangle Fiber Guild meeting earlier this month, when we had a virtual lesson from The Knitting Fairy:
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| In progress, showing how we start using a technique that leaves no hole to be closed later! Using up bits of yarn. |
20 November 2025
Thankfuls 11-20
Day 12 - Thankful for the U.S. Postal Service, and a tolerant delivery person who still gets my mail to me despite all the times a neighbor blocks my box.
Day 13 - Thankful for the opportunity to study Torah with Rabbi Salem of Goldring/Woldenberg Institute of Southern Jewish Life - ISJL.
Day 14 - Thankful to be able to finally shut off the work computer and unwind with a movie and crocheting.
Day 15 - Thankful for kind and understanding paramedics, doctors and nurses and ER staff, and supportive home health aides. Also that the damage is mostly bruises and a lumpy head. (As it turned out once all the X-rays and scans were done, Mom has two cracked ribs. Thankful it was not more serious.)
Day 16 - Thankful for a calm Sunday, with nice weather and talking to family, and knitting, and THREE online fiber gatherings. (Plus the Bears beat the Vikings!)
Day 17 - Thankful for the doctor (routine checkup) telling me to "come back in two years".
16 November 2025
Bits of Autumn
10 November 2025
Thankfuls 1-10
I
almost forgot this year, but saw a friend posting and was reminded:
Day 1 - I am thankful for LIBRARIES. Today I spent some time at the main library of my county, learning about local and state history, meeting other history nerds, and surrounded by BOOKS!
Day 2 - I am thankful for modern washing appliances, as I have a lot of laundry to catch up on after two weeks of almost nonstop travel.
Day 3 - I am thankful to have a friend to take the ticket to a play I cannot attend; scheduling is always a risk when I buy season tickets, but it's worth it to support local arts organizations.
Day 4 - The ability to vote. I know what some of my ancestors went through to escape oppressive regimes and come to the USA so they could vote. I know what it took for most Americans to be granted the right to vote, when they were previously denied because of gender, race, or socioeconomic status. I cannot understand people who cannot be bothered to vote.
Day 5 - Glad for music. Specifically tonight, an "Opera About Town" performance featuring four people with wonderful voices. Also for my library book club, but I've already cited libraries.
Day 6 - Thankful for Braver Angels and similar groups that are trying to reach across the political divides. I spent part of my evening in a group of people discussing political violence and ways to disperse or avoid it. We agreed that it affects both sides, but is avoidable.
Day 7 - Thankful to have professional organizations that boost individuals as well as the profession, and where I can contribute.
Day 8 - Thankful for a beautiful day and time to spend at the Triangle Weavers Guild Show & Sale, and the Triangle Twisters Sit-and-Spin. Lovely stuff to buy, good food to eat, nice to visit with people.
Day 9 - Thankful for excellent weather on a weekend day when I can get out and enjoy it.
Day 10 - Thankful for a working heating system. (Annual checkup was today, and it passed comfortably.) Also thankful for my community that has at least two "White Flag Warming Centers" for cold snaps like this one, and I see in news reports that many others have opened.
09 November 2025
Eighty-Seven Years Ago
Kristallnacht marked a turning point in Nazi Germany -- the moment when years of escalating antisemitic legislation burst into open, coordinated violence carried out by Nazi stormtroopers (Sturmabteilung), SS forces, Hitler Youth, and civilians. On those two days in November 1938, close to 100 Jews were murdered, and approximately 30,000 Jewish men were arrested and sent to concentration camps.
31 October 2025
This many.
24 October 2025
Fine Times in Philly
I am on a quick turnaround at home between the ACC Annual Meeting and heading to Texas for our quarterly Legal Department All-Hands. I had fun leading walks in the mornings, and meeting people, and seeing friends, and learning stuff.
Because I am in leadership roles I am invited to the Leadership Development Institute, where we had a team-building exercise to create the tallest possible structure using spaghetti, some masking tape, a piece of string, and a marshmallow. The structures were measured from the surface to the marshmallow which had to be at the top.
My team had two engineers out of the four of us, and we won:
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| Design based upon oil derricks and the John Hancock building in Chicago - and we didn't use the string! |
I also, to my surprise, won this:
I did take time on Saturday, after arriving, to visit The Fabric Workshop and Museum and the Philadelphia Academy of Fine Arts, which in addition to having some interesting exhibits was participating in the Philadelphia Open Studios Tour (POTS) so I met a number of artists and saw their ongoing works. I picked up supper at the Reading Terminal Market and ate in my hotel room.
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| Sweet bologna on rye with mustard, and a pickle. |
And I knit a bunch of hats:
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| Technically the pink one at the top was mostly finished when I left for the conference, but the other five were knit there. One of the blue ones was finished after I returned home. |
12 October 2025
Sitting out the nor'easter.
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| Yes, it's only seven - I have made many more, of course, but for another collection. Although I may add three if the Guild collection looks very sparse. |














































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