My best friend and I used to see each other frequently - when we lived in adjoining towns, I could almost walk to her house. After they moved to Florida, I'd visit when I dropped in to see my grandmother for a weekend, which my traveling job allowed about once a month or so.
Then they moved to New Jersey, and while there was one visit before I moved, none since. This is a very long time to not see each other! So we worked out a weekend for a visit. It turned out that we were the only two people in the house, and the weather was drek, so it was just us for the weekend.
Thursday night her husband picked me up on the way home from work, and it was late so after brief visiting (mostly to show me where the guest room and bathroom are in the basement) everybody to bed. He left early on Friday morning, and she went to work, and I worked from the guest area and sitting at the breakfast bar in the auxiliary kitchen so I didn't have to deal with the cat.
Then my bestie came home, picking up way too much vegan kosher Chinese food on the way, and after quickly prepping a slow cooker and the Shabbos hotpot for water, we lit candles and had a slow supper, and visited a bit, then to bed early.
Saturday was somewhat lazy. My friend had baked a pumpkin cake - with fresh pumpkin she'd harvested - and we had slices for breakfast. And fed the chickens, and talked and did a puzzle (we both love jigsaw puzzles) and had a nap, then the crockpot stuff for lunch, and finished the puzzle, celebrating with cake and tea, and petted the bunny. Eventually it was sunset, and we did havdalah, then had leftover Chinese food for supper.
There was some reorganzing of spaces (she was impressed with my visual-spatial acuity) and we watched the films for my class on Sunday. Since my bestie lived in Senegal and speaks several languages, she understood the film without the subtitles and told me when they didn't match.
Eventually, to bed - except that I stayed up for a bit watching videos and working on her surprise gifts. On Sunday morning, after a trip to a local bagel bakery for much takeout, we had bagels with cream cheese and onion and cucumbers and avocado for breakfast. Then talked more, while I finished the hat and ran in the ends on the hat and mittens.
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She likes to fold back the mitten cuffs. |
I had been worried because the items looked really big when I was knitting, but they fit perfectly and she is thrilled to have them. Many years ago, on a trip back to Connecticut she'd visited the farm and brought the yarn to me - two hanks of white, two of brown, slightly different weights and no yardage or other information. Except the names of the animals: Marshmallow and Charlie. I decided that they should be a gift for her, but living in Florida there wasn't much need of heavy items. When they moved to New Jersey, I saw the opportunity - and couldn't find a pattern that I really liked. I wanted to do more than stripes, and considered a houndsooth as fallback, then saw a new pattern that I realized would be perfect for her. And they are, plus there's a lot of the white and a bit of brown that I promised would become something for me.
As scheduled, we took the class (with bestie as a 'guest expert' giving information about the language and culture and comparing to how things were when she was there - thirty years or so after the films, and not much change!), then watched the Center for Knit and Crochet's launch of the Maria C. Vallejo Lace Collection. And did another puzzle. And had more cake, and Chinese food.
We kept watching the weather, and I was tracking both my flight (showing on time) and departures from the airport (dismal). We left with some extra time to get to the airport, because I said that I'd rather spend the time at the gate than have to run. And good thing, because first I couldn't find my driver's license (accidentally slipped into a pocket of my suitcase when I was packing), then TSA was a nightmare of closing and opening lines and just the number of people trying to get through. And of course mine was one of the furthest gates. So I was very glad to have the extra time!
After that, the trip was uneventful (I knitted and read), and I got home, unwound, and most of a night's sleep before my work week begins again.