Showing posts with label thankful. Show all posts
Showing posts with label thankful. Show all posts

30 November 2025

Thankfuls 21-30


Day 21 - Thankful to be able to enjoy an organ and clarinet concert via Congregation Beth Israel as a bit of a break in a long and hectic day.

Day 22 - Thankful that my mother felt like sitting up at table for supper, first time in a week!

Day 23 - Same as always, thankful for this guy! (He's bigger now and has less hair.  ðŸ˜‰)

Day 24 - Thankful for kind and helpful and thoughtful neighbors.

Day 25 - Thankful to finally finish a major deal at work, so now I can get back to normal(-ish) work, at least for the rest of this week.

Day 26 - Thankful for people who are kind and friendly during everybody's frantic pre-holiday last-minute shopping. Also for a station playing classical music, not Christmas stuff.

Day 27 - Thankful for family, and that we are able to gather together and enjoy each other's company. Thankful for the food on the table, and that we can share it with others. And thankful that Mom made sure to get my great-grandmother's special pumpkin pie recipe!  [I forgot to take a photo before we ate it, but it was YUMMY.]

Day 28 - Thankful that we do not need to try to get anything from a Black Friday sale, and that I can stay in the office and home, watching football and eating leftovers for dessert. Also that I was finally able to catch up on some very tedious administrivia because of the quiet at work.

Day 29 - Thankful that my parents are still as compos as they are, with spirits and brains willing even as their bodies decide that a nap is the better way to spend an afternoon. Well, semi-napped and directed my willing hands and feet to help clean out closets and reorganize the master bathroom - thankful I can help them!

Day 30 - Thankful to reach the end of another month, and another year, and have things to look back upon and forward to and more adventure ahead that I haven't anticipated yet. As Stan Lee always ended his messages: EXCELSIOR! 🚀

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By the way, I heard this short video about how gratitude and thankfulness can change your attitude and even how you think overall. I'm not sure it has this year, but I do try to focus on one good thing a day, whether it's the glow of autumn leaves against a deep blue sky, or family, or other things. It might be worth continuing beyond the Thirty Days of Thankful in November. Am I up for continuing in December and meeting the speaker's challenge?

20 November 2025

Thankfuls 11-20

 


Day 11 - Thankful to all the veterans.


Day 12 - Thankful for the U.S. Postal Service, and a tolerant delivery person who still gets my mail to me despite all the times a neighbor blocks my box.

Day 13 - Thankful for the opportunity to study Torah with Rabbi Salem of Goldring/Woldenberg Institute of Southern Jewish Life - ISJL.

Day 14 - Thankful to be able to finally shut off the work computer and unwind with a movie and crocheting.

Day 15 - Thankful for kind and understanding paramedics, doctors and nurses and ER staff, and supportive home health aides. Also that the damage is mostly bruises and a lumpy head. (As it turned out once all the X-rays and scans were done, Mom has two cracked ribs. Thankful it was not more serious.)

Day 16 - Thankful for a calm Sunday, with nice weather and talking to family, and knitting, and THREE online fiber gatherings. (Plus the Bears beat the Vikings!)

Day 17 - Thankful for the doctor (routine checkup) telling me to "come back in two years".

Day 18 - Thankful for neighbors who can take great photographs of our beautiful sunset:

Day 19 - Thankful I could get out for a midday walk. It was warm and sunny today.

Day 20 - Thankful for food trucks when my day (which started with a 7:00am meeting) goes long and is jampacked and I don't have time to cook. Thankful for the small businesses and other people cooking.

10 November 2025

Thankfuls 1-10

 


I almost forgot this year, but saw a friend posting and was reminded:

Day 1 - I am thankful for LIBRARIES. Today I spent some time at the main library of my county, learning about local and state history, meeting other history nerds, and surrounded by BOOKS!

Day 2 - I am thankful for modern washing appliances, as I have a lot of laundry to catch up on after two weeks of almost nonstop travel.

Day 3 - I am thankful to have a friend to take the ticket to a play I cannot attend; scheduling is always a risk when I buy season tickets, but it's worth it to support local arts organizations.

Day 4 - The ability to vote. I know what some of my ancestors went through to escape oppressive regimes and come to the USA so they could vote. I know what it took for most Americans to be granted the right to vote, when they were previously denied because of gender, race, or socioeconomic status. I cannot understand people who cannot be bothered to vote.

Day 5 - Glad for music. Specifically tonight, an "Opera About Town" performance featuring four people with wonderful voices. Also for my library book club, but I've already cited libraries.

Day 6 - Thankful for Braver Angels and similar groups that are trying to reach across the political divides. I spent part of my evening in a group of people discussing political violence and ways to disperse or avoid it. We agreed that it affects both sides, but is avoidable.

Day 7 - Thankful to have professional organizations that boost individuals as well as the profession, and where I can contribute.

Day 8 - Thankful for a beautiful day and time to spend at the Triangle Weavers Guild Show & Sale, and the Triangle Twisters Sit-and-Spin. Lovely stuff to buy, good food to eat, nice to visit with people.

Day 9 - Thankful for excellent weather on a weekend day when I can get out and enjoy it.

Day 10 - Thankful for a working heating system. (Annual checkup was today, and it passed comfortably.) Also thankful for my community that has at least two "White Flag Warming Centers" for cold snaps like this one, and I see in news reports that many others have opened.

01 December 2024

Thankfuls.

Unlike the last couple-three years, I didn't do the Thankful Thing, where every day you list something for which you are thankful.  I was traveling at the beginning of the month, and after the election things were a bit fraught, and work kept me busy, and my parents, and so on.

I was thankful on Thursday that the family got together, and the food was well-liked and met most of the dietary requirements (probably a little too carbs-heavy), and we were able to visit.

Yesterday my dad and I did what I think is the penultimate day of garage boxes, although there are a few along the sink wall in the back, but they are out of the way and don't count for this part of the exercise.  Besides, many of them hold records, not books, and that's a different adventure of sorting.  I was able to get the car packed in time for Mom to make one delivery to the Friends of the Library, and four more boxes await delivery on Tuesday.

I'm almost to the end of the fourth foot of the second red scarf, and need to add the extra length to my hat, especially now that it is cold, but instead I have started a new project:


Some people on one of my lists were talking about advent projects, usually designed for a package of miniskeins of yarn and doing something every day.  Others are, for example, a stocking where you do part of the pattern every day.  One pattern that several people liked is a scarf where you pick a skein every day, knit a tube with a circular needle (so it goes fast, and I supposed you could use a loom or machine also), and when it's done you have a double-thick scarf.  I debated doing that, for simplicity.

Then I decided to have a bit of fun and make a stole-type shawl for myself.  This is just a long rectangle.  Some of the advent patterns do this with a solid between the miniskeins, and I debated trying to figure out some yarn in my stash that would be enough to carry along with the random colours.  I couldn't find anything that I liked well enough, in a thin enough yarn, with sufficient yardage.

So the current plan is to work with the yarn doubled, and every day do a half-skein, and when one runs out add the new colour.  It may or may not work - and I can always frog and try something else.

So I gathered together 33 miniskeins and balls, marking the 25 days before Christmas and the eight days of Channukah that follow this year.  Instead of working them singly, which would require a pattern (or be too boring) and not give enough interest for me, plus possibly very abrupt colour changes, I decided to work the yarns together:
Crochet cast-on, so the ends will look more similar.

Since I have two of the goldish-tannish colour, which as the top photo shows isn't solid like the others, I decided to divide the brown that was also wound into a ball in halves, and use this for the starting and ending.  Other than this, whatever colour comes next will be randomly selected.

If it doesn't look good, I will frog and may crochet instead, for speed.  We shall see!

30 November 2023

The third and final ten of 2023.

Day 21: Thankful that not only do I have enough food, but that I have enough to share, whether a cake for an event tonight or donating to the local food pantry so others can have Thanksgiving meals.

Day 22: Thankful that I had my grandmother for as many years as I did. My Facebook memories popped up a few photos I'd posted on a post-turkey walk five years ago, and I realized it was the last holiday we all had together (the following year my father was ill - not horribly, but too much to travel, and my mother stayed home with him, then pandemic), and I started missing her terribly.

One of my favourite photos of the two of us,
when we visited the Morikami Gardens.

Day 23: Same as every year, thankful for this guy:

My baby brother, as a toddler.
He's older now and has much less hair.

Day 24: Thankful that I didn't need to go out into the Black Friday crowds, and that I could shop online for the things that others (Toys for Tots, Durham Rescue Mission Angel Tree) need. And my brother loved that this year his birthday gift was that 42 people had Thanksgiving supper plus extras at the Durham Rescue Mission last night.

Day 25: Thankful for all the people who run a small business. I know how hard it can be, and try to shop at as many of them as I can. Just a few of my favourites:

And more independent hand-dyers (also called 'indie dyers') and local yarn (and other craft supplies) shops than I can list!

Day 26: How can I not be thankful for museums on Museum Store Sunday? I've been going to museums since I was carried in my mother's arms (and probably when I was carried in her tummy), and they are one of the places I seek out wherever I travel. I've lived as close as across the street and definitely took advantage of that on some lonely and weather-dismal weekends when I first lived in that town. I've met interesting people at museums and made a number of friends from those contacts. Plus ALL THE STUFF I'VE LEARNED!!!!!

As a note:  Museums are not just stuff in buildings.  Some are open-air spaces that teach about how people lived during a time, or in an area.  Some are just a room in a larger building.  Keep your eyes open and look for all kinds, as sometimes the less-standard-looking ones are most interesting.

Day 27: Thankful for technology. Not just because it is Cyber Monday, but all the technologies that help people I know (pacemakers, cochlear implants, motorized wheelchairs), medical technology for surgeries and treatments of all kinds, technology for transportation and communication, and so many more things that we take for granted. Every day there's something new and different - I applaud the breakthroughs and encourage everybody to use technology for good.

Day 28: Thankful for my family, and since it's Giving Tuesday the lesson about giving to others. From a young age I was taught that I should share what I have and help people who need helping. It has stuck with me, and is why I donate items to thrift stores, or Habitat for Humanity and shelters and other places that can use things. I knit and crochet items to donate, and I contribute to food pantries and community gardens. Even when I didn't have money, I could give time by helping to make sandwiches, build a house, or sit with somebody in hospital. Giving doesn't always mean money.

Day 29: Thankful for all the first responders: Police, EMTs, Firefighters, and others who keep us safe and help when needed. I know that this can be controversial, given the last few years. I have friends who are in these roles, and others such as firejumpers, and I know what they commit to the job and the community. Not all people who wear a uniform or a badge are bad people, but of course those are the ones who get the most publicity. Two of my close friends lost their fathers in the line of duty, and in Chicago I supported a group that fundraised to provide for police officers who were disabled from injuries received on the job, and their families, and the families of officers who died on the job. More than once I've needed help from somebody in one of these roles, and I am glad that I can call upon them when I do.

Day 30:  Last, but never least, I am thankful for my FRIENDS. I don't have hundreds on Facebook, and except for a small percentage (usually friend-of-friend with whom I have strong common interests) they are all people I've met and often with whom I have spent time in the past. I also have friends who aren't part of my Facebook circle; we do it the old-fashioned way! Some people I call "friend" I have not seen in person in many years, but I know if I turn up on their doorstep, I'll be invited in and we'll catch up for hours. If they turn up on mine, I'll probably invite them in for tea and cookies. I've gone out of my way for some, and am always surprised and touched when they do the same for me.

So the month ends - different every year. It's an effort to remember to post on Facebook every day, and sometimes to find something new to say, but it's a good reminder every year of all the things for which I can be thankful.

20 November 2023

The second ten of 2023

Continuing the gratitude list for this year:

Day 11:  Thankful to our veterans, as on any Armistice/Veterans Day.  On the fourth I went to the memorials in DC for those who died in service, today is for those who returned.  Not all of them are whole, and not all treated well, but as the saying goes:

So many who returned from overseas did not return whole, either in mind or body or both.  It's startling to me to hear about how they were treated, and are treated to this day - not with honor, but with disdain.

Day 12:  Thankful for people who do art, and crafters, and those who support them.  I participated in a local arts & crafts show, and while I didn't sell much, I did sell a few things.  People were very kind in their comments and suggestions, so I may try again next year.  I participated several years in Open Studios Hartford through MakeHartford and it was discouraging, so this was a change - not a huge one, I didn't sell out, but I received good feedback, so I'll see how next year goes.



Day 13: It was World Kindness Day on November 13th, so I am Thankful for those who remember that kindness is important, and even more for those who express it.

Day 14: Thankful for musicians, and all musical performers. I grew up surrounded by them, and have gotten to know many more as my life progressed. I spent part of the evening listening to one of my friends perform as the musical guest on this podcast tonight. It was a special treat during the pandemic for my grandmother and me to listen to his weekly mini-concerts, and when she died I received the CDs he'd sent her, which she enjoyed listening to on the CD player I sent to her so she could have music between the concerts.

Day 15: Thankful for heat, a warm house, and people keeping the heating system running. Not that it needed anything special, but it was the yearly check of the system and I know there are many people without a warm home, so it makes me thankful that I have one.

Day 16: continuing the theme: Thankful for clean water and indoor plumbing. Again, many people do not have these modern advantages. (Also thankful that I can do minor plumbing work myself, and know people to call upon when it's beyond my skillset.)

Day 17:  Thankful for the U.S. Postal Service, and the postal systems in other countries.  Yes, there are other delivery services, some of which are more or less reliable, but in the beginning was postal systems.  I prefer them, for the pretty stamps, with holiday and birthday and congratulatory options, and commemoratives, and so on.  Plus there is something very nice about writing by hand, or even typing and adding pictures, and putting it in an envelope, and sending.  These days when so much happens electronically, a paper letter or card really seems a treat.

Day 18:  Thankful for symphony orchestras and smaller orchestras and wind bands, and conductors who really connect to the audiences.  I went to hear the North Carolina Symphony tonight and during the Leonard Bernstein piece, the conductor encouraged the audience to add appropriately, which we did with enthusiasm.  My snapping may not be great anymore, but I can shout "Mambo!" on cue.

Day 19:  Thankful for the interwebs and social media and all the ways to stay connected, from the friend on the other side of the world whose post inspired the previous blog post about six-word bios, to the online programs I attend from organizations all over the world (and kudos to those that didn't stop when the pandemic eased and most returned to in-person events), to the groups that meet online for an hour or so of chat and community.  Plus all the places I have visited that I wouldn't have seen otherwise, and the people who show me new foods and methods of travel and places to explore and buy books or museums that aren't in the usual guidebooks.  And people who do cooking and crafting and have intrigued and inspired me.  It may not be what the founders thought of when they set DARPANET loose, but as with any such thing, there are many good things among the dross and I love finding them.

Day 20:  Thankful that I can cook.  I am always surprised to learn that not everybody can.  My mother made sure we kids knew early how to take care of ourselves, including cooking.  When I haven't had much money, I still could eat, and fairly well.  I can cook and bake for others, too.  Many people think it takes too much time to cook, but I find that going out and sitting in a restaurant and then getting home again takes more time than I need to cook many of my meals - and I can cook in my pyjamas.  Restaurants tend to frown on people in pyjamas.  And I feel less wasteful because I don't mind eating leftovers (sometimes using them as starter parts of a different meal) and I compost the bits that cannot be eaten.

Guava Cake (Queque de Guyaba) that I baked for an event
tomorrow.  The glaze is pink from the guava nectar.


11 November 2023

The first ten of 2023

I was traveling and hadn't thought of such things, but seeing a friend's post reminded me that many people take the month of November to list things for which they are thankful. These are my first ten for this year:

Day 1 - Thankful to be able to take vacation. Technically I've had jobs that allow for it, but pre-pandemic I mostly used the time to visit family and occasionally for a fiber conference or SCA event. This was a real type of vacation, just me, off on an adventure - well, an educational program about Spies & Espionage.

Day 2 - Thankful that the Plague Mask Players allow me to participate in their shows, and that I remembered to get to the event page in time, so that I was able to be cast in Love's Labours Lost. I was given the role of Holofernes.

Day 3 - Thankful to see live theater. At the suggestion of another person at the program I was taking for my vacation, I went to see POTUS at Arena Stage, which was walking distance from our hotel. Excellent show, lots of twists, fun and sometimes poignant performances. Highly recommend if you can see it.

Day 4 - Thankful to the many who have served in the Armed Forces, as we spent part of our day attending memorials for those who gave "the last full measure of devotion." Our guides timed things so we were at the World War I ("The War to End All Wars", until another one came along) memorial at 5:00pm to hear the doughboy's daily playing of "Taps".
     

Day 5 - Thankful for fiber-friends I have made over the years, as I was able to spend time today with one in-person and others virtually.


Day 6 - Thankful to NASA and other space-exploring organizations, and for the many inventions that stem from their work.


Day 7 - It's Election Day, so I am thankful to be living in a country where we can vote our conscience, and privately. Also thankful to all who came before who fought for the right to vote.

Day 8 - Thankful for farmers, who grow our food.









Day 9 - Thankful to be able to take a walk outside today: Weather is good, neighborhood is safe, body is working, time permits. A few photos taken this week, showing the brilliance of autumn:
    


    


Day 10 -
Thankful for eyesight. I said on Facebook that it's something I do NOT take lightly, but I didn't want to present an essay there, so just included a song link.  I was born to two very myopic (near-sighted) parents, so no surprise when at age six I first needed glasses.  At the time I was not happy as no other children in my class wore them, and my mother said it was my decision to wear them or not, but she was required, as a parent, to buy them for me.

My displeasure lasted until the ride home, when my mother heard a wondering chirp from the back seat that "trees got leaves!"  And ever since, that has been one of my tests to figure out if I need new lenses: Can I see the leaves?  I also have astigmatism (not as bad as my brother's) which means seeing things that should be straight as slightly bent is another of our signals.

Through my life, my nearsightedness worsened, as it does, until I could no longer focus both eyes without wearing glasses.  I was one-eyed to thread needles, and to read without glasses.  I often had dents in the side of my nose for falling asleep reading in bed with my glasses in place.  I think I was in late grammar school or middle school when I was first told that I was legally blind without corrective lenses.  By the end, my correction was around 14.5-15 diopters in each eye, and there's no "20/####" comparison.  I wore fairly sturdy, usually depressingly plain, and very expenses glasses.

In my 20s I developed cataracts.  This is fairly normal in my family, from speaking to others, and it means we get ours removed at a comparatively early age.  [Yes, not everybody is ancient when they have cataracts removed - when I expressed surprise my ophthalmologist informed me that babies can have them, so there!]  While my great-grandmother had hers removed when she was in her 70s or so, by my generation we were decades younger.  And I learned that nowadays, when they put in the new lenses, they can correct your nearsightedness or farsightedness - to a point.  In my case, they could correct only about 12 diopters of my myopia, leaving me with a slight nearsightedness.  Or they could change my vision to farsighted.  (My grandfather went with one eye each direction, but his correction was much lighter than mine.)  To my surgeon's surprise, I chose to be nearsighted, reasoning that I'd been such all my life and adjusting to farsightedness would be more of a challenge - plus I wanted to be able to read in bed without glasses.

So far, so good.  I can buy reasonably normal-priced glasses, so for the first time in my life instead of two pairs (main and backup), I have a small wardrobe of glasses in different shapes and colours of frames.  I have prescription sunglasses.  I read in bed - a LOT - and generally remove my glasses to read onscreen or anything written.  This occasionally means I have to track down a pair that I set down in an unaccustomed spot, but I haven't found glasses chains that work comfortably.

It also means that I donate to organizations such as Lions Club and Seva Foundation that help people to see.  And I don't take for granted when I go on one of my walks, being able to see that "trees got leaves!"

30 November 2022

Thankfuls, Part 4

Wrapping up this month:

27:  Museums! I cannot remember how old I was the first time I went*, but it was the days before children's museums, so I went to the regular ones on Best Behaviour and was introduced to science and art and history of all kinds. I am not shopping for #MuseumStoreSunday as I don't need things and don't know people who need anything this year (we already have all the "Museum Nerd" swag) but you should as they have really cool items.

* My mother told me that I was two years old: "You were two and I prepared you for a visit to the Art Institute by showing you pictures of some of what we'd see. We got to the top of the stairs and you looked at the painting in front of you and said in your two year old voice 'Oh, El Greco.' The several nuns standing there just about fainted."

The Assumption of the Virgin (1577–1579)

28:  Music!  Do I really need to explain it?  My first concert was also when I was two years old, the Chicago Symphony Orchestra in residence at the Ravinia Festival.

29:  Books, and authors, and libraries.  The wonder of reading**.

30:  The ability to see.  I've never taken it for granted - you don't when you are so myopic that you began testing as legally blind (without corrective lenses) at around age six, plus I have astigmatism, plus cataracts, so I am very aware of vision.    A number of years ago (yes, earlier than many people expect to hear about it, but that's the way of my family, see Day #21, the memory from 2012) I had my cataracts removed, and they were able to correct 12 diopters of my vision, which means I am only about 2.50-2.75 diopters of correction which translates to around 20/225 vision.  I cannot tell you what it would have been before, as most of the conversion charts stop around -6.00 diopters.  I am also very thankful for a skilled doctor who performed the surgeries, and also the people who keep improving the process.  I still find wonder in the power and gift of sight.


** As of today I have finished fifteen books this year, most of which I started this year.  That is three more than the number to which I committed on GoodReads, where I guessed at doing a book a month.  Some months I didn't finish any; other months I finished two.  Given that two of the recent ones were from the "Historical Whodunits" series, and around 500 pages each, I think it's an acceptable accomplishment.


26 November 2022

Thankfuls, Part 3

Continuing for the month: 

20:  Credit to people who are supportive, as without encouragement I never would have started making soufflés for my parents!  The soufflés have a story, the short version of which is that after I saw Franklin Habit achieve it without hyperventilating, I decided that I would try it.  I managed one for myself.  When I was helping my parents remove things from high shelves and sort through what was not used, one item was a soufflé dish.  I offered to make one while they decided what to do with it.  They kept the dish and it has become a tradition that I make one every time I visit.

21: Thankful that I have a good boss (although I still miss my old one) and colleagues who work together and support each other well.

       I also posted forward this Facebook memory of a post from 2012:

Thankful for my family, in so very many ways.  (Except maybe the teeth-of-chalk, wide feet, and bad eyes. And my dad's sense of humour about half the time.)

22: Thankful for my uncle's thoughfulness in organizing his finances.  What I haven't talked about much is that when he became disabled in 2018, we found out that he'd appointed me to hold his Powers of Attorney, and also to be his successor Trustee.  Most of his assets were in, or designated to become part of, his trust.  This has made things much easier for me to resolve since his death.

23:  As always on the 23rd, thankful for my baby brother.  He is hardly a baby anymore, but he’s still the younger by almost three years.


 
24: Thankful for the native persons who helped the first Europeans to survive in their new continent.

25: Thankful for a quieter work day, and for leftovers, and the family with whom I ate the original meal two days ago.

When traveling, I write something on my mask -
a quote from a birthday person, or a significant
event that happened on that date.
This seemed most appropriate for flying this year.

26: Thankful for all the small businesses! I do what I can to support them instead of big businesses. I did my share of that today.